I would not pick someone who would kick my ass all day because that would piss me off.  I would not pick someone who was probably just too cool to be seen with me I would not pick someone who I wanted to get to know so who would I pick? My best friend. We learned to surf together in Peru on a cold ass day, hungover first thing on a Sunday morning. All she did was swear at me the entire time for making her get out of bed so she deserves a good surfing experience with me this time 😉